Former butler to international royalty Julius F Smith has revealed his verdict READ MORE: The 39 rules for being a lady: As Country Life reveals the key signs of a true gentleman, Etiquette Queen LAURA WINDSOR offers her ultimate list for womenSee more Daily Mail on Google - save us as a Preferred Source Updated: 07:09 EDT, 15 August 2026 Do you call your evening meal supper or dinner? And is the sweet treat to finish off the dining experience called pudding or dessert?While it might sound like meaningless information, it can actually speak volumes about your class, according to a former royal butler.Speaking to the Daily Mail, Julius F Smith, former royal butler and founder of Regal Afternoon Tea, has revealed the secret signs that reveal whether you're really middle or upper class.And it's not just limited to food, but everything from the type of car you drive to the sports you enjoy and what kind of doorbell you possess.Read on for the Smith's secret signs that indicate your social stratum... The secret signs revealing your class...The evening mealUpper: It's called supper, and it's served at 8pm. And you conclude with a traditional English 'pudding', like trifle.Middle: It's dinner in your household, and 7pm is the preferred time. The concluding sweet dish is called dessert, and it'll likely be something French or Italian.CutleryUpper: Cutlery has been passed down through the generations, including the different knives and forks for every type of food.Middle: It's all about John Lewis cutlery sets. Bonus points if they're multi-coloured.Tea cups or mugsUpper: There's only one way to have a cup of tea: with a teacup and saucer.Middle: You prefer bone china.StaffUpper class: Staff is the housekeeper who's been with the family for years and is basically a member of the family now.Middle class: There's a single cleaner who rarely stays more than six months.ClubsUpper: St James's clubs (and your father and grandfather were members before you).Middle: Modern clubs are the preference, where your occupation is an important asset.SportUpper: Shooting in the winter, followed by horse racing in the summer.Middle: It's all about football, and you rarely miss a match with your season ticket.CarsUpper: You drive something nondescript, like a VW Golf with over 80,000 miles.Middle: The faster, shinier, and more expensive, the better.LuggageUpper: Brands such as Globetrotter or leather hand-me-downs do the trick.Middle: Designer luggage from Louis Vuitton or Gucci is the go-to.Music preferences Upper: You prefer Radio 3 or Classic FM.Middle: Streaming your favourite hits on Spotify or Apple Music is the norm.PeasUpper: You don't eat peas. They're common and difficult to eat.Middle: Peas? No, you eat petit pois.Bell or doorbell?Upper: You have a bell at your front door which, when pulled, rings in the kitchen and hallway.Middle: It's all about the Ring doorbell; how else will you track your Amazon deliveries?Car colour Upper: Your old Range Rover is green, and your runaround VW Golf is silver.Middle: Anything that makes your car stand out more than the next person.
The 12 subtle signs that reveal your true class: Former royal butler reveals what the colour of your car, the cutlery you own and the music you prefer says about you
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