My husband is allowed to have sex with 6 women a year – we go on holiday & he tells me about his sessions at breakfast

OUR Ultimate Summer Sex Survey found 63 per cent of people have ‘open rules’ on holiday – here chef Ejiro Murolo, 38, and her husband Antonio, 43, a security guard from Southend-on-Sea, reveal why they chose to open up their relationship… RETURNING home from a gruelling 15-hour shift, the last thing on my mind was sex. Ejiro Murolo, 38, and her husband Antonio, 43, opened up their relationship after her lack of libido put a strain on their marriage Credit: David Cummings – Commissioned by The Sun Ejiro decided Antonio could have one-off flings with other women when on holiday abroad Credit: David Cummings – Commissioned by The Sun But rather than let my lack of libido put a strain on my marriage, I came up with a solution to keep my horny husband happy – though it came with one crucial rule. Antonio and I met through friends in July 2019 and instantly fell in love, marrying just five months later. From the start we were honest with each other, and Antonio told me he had a high sex drive, while I admitted mine ebbed and flowed, though we still managed to have sex up to five times a week. However, my long shifts in the catering kitchen started to take their toll and left me feeling exhausted, and I could no longer keep up. I was honest about how tired I was, and we discussed how we could meet each other’s needs. I decided Antonio could have one-off flings with other women, as long as he followed my rules. We were going on a holiday to Greece in August 2022 when we put our new arrangement to the test. I wanted any encounters to be completely separate from our everyday lives. If we were abroad, there was no chance of bumping into someone back home. Antonio used a dating app to find women interested in casual holiday romances and met a 45-year-old American woman celebrating her divorce. He told me about their night of sex the following morning over breakfast. Initially I felt jealous, but I realised it was just sex. Since then, Antonio has enjoyed several more flings and says summer is the peak season for no-strings-attached fun because everyone is more relaxed and open. And we’re not alone in our decision. The Summer Sex Survey revealed that 63 per cent of people confessed to open rules while away on holiday, while 37 per cent said the open love policy counts back home too. This year he’s hoping for at least five summer hook-ups, which is fine as we have agreed to six a year. He just needs to stick to the rules. We’ve also agreed that Antonio can only meet women we don’t know, the sex must be a one-off, and he has to tell me where he’s going and who he’s meeting. The arrangement might be unusual, but our marriage comes first. I am practical about love and sex. He has needs, and I have fewer of those needs. We still have sex three times a week, and he will put effort into date nights and make me feel special. We never set out to have an open relationship, but I have seen relationships fall apart because people don’t talk about mismatched sex drives. This allows us to stay together, be honest and make sure neither of us feels deprived. It works for us, and that’s all that matters. If you’re curious, a summer holiday can be a good way to test the waters. It worked for us. We still have sex three times a week, says Ejiro Credit: John McLellan SEXY SUMMER SECRETS BRITS are ready to turn up the heat this summer as a sizzling new wave of bedroom adventure sweeps across the nation. The explosive findings are part of our ultimate Summer Sex Survey, which reveals exactly what gets the country going when the mercury rises. Sunshine is proving to be the ultimate aphrodisiac, with over a third of randy punters confessing that a heatwave gets them feeling way more romantic than usual. From cheeky outdoor romps to tearing up the relationship rulebook, the British public is ditching the old traditions to hunt down hot summer flings and experimental new positions. Here, we delve deep into the sizzling results of our most revealing poll yet. The Sun’s poll of 2,000 adults reveals the nation’s wildest summer bedroom secrets The Bedroom Clock How often are you actually getting it on? 30% Several times a week 23% About once a week 21% A few times a month 10% Less than once a month 7% Exactly once a month 5% Every. Single. Day. 4% Not telling What’s your prime time for bedroom action? 32% Late at night 24% Cheeky evening romp 19% Whenever, go with the flow 13% Love a bit of morning glory 6% Save it up for wild weekends 5% Appreciate afternoon delight 1% Only when on holiday Hitting the spot How regularly do you actually hit the big O? 34% Often 33% Every time 21% Only sometimes 6% It’s a rare treat 4% Not telling 2% Never get there How easy do you find it to talk dirty and tell your partner what you like? 42% Fairly comfortable 39% Very comfortable 13% Not very comfortable 4% Not at all comfortable 2% Too shy to say The heatwave effect When we asked if the heatwave made you fancy an outdoor romp, most people said it made no difference to their sex life, the remainder were split 55% Less likely, it’s too hot to get sweaty 35% Could be tempted or are well up for it 10% Can’t say/won’t say Does a bit of sun get you feeling extra affectionate? 63% Yes, feel more amorous 22% Sticky heat is a real turnoff 9% God yes, strip and go 6% Just aren’t sure What is it about the summer that gets your motor running? (Multiple-choice option) 70% The sunny weather puts them in a much better mood 69% Blame it entirely on the warmer weather 47% Because we are away on holiday or travelling, so more relaxed 35% Love having more free time on their hands 25% Down to more socialising and summer boozing 2% Have other secret summer triggers 1% Say none of this applies to them Holiday wild child When you jet off on holiday, does your inner wild child come out? 32% Bedroom behaviour stays the same 31% Let their hair down 29% Become spontaneous holiday romantics 5% Are way more cautious when abroad 3% Just stay at home Which of these juicy summer perks do you look forward to most? (Multiple choice option) 44% More quality time with partner 35% Exciting new experiences 28% Being way more physically affectionate 21% The thrill of meeting new people Screen time Ever watched adult films? 66% Confess to having watched a bit of blue content 29% Claim they have never even peeked 5% Wouldn’t share their browser history If you do watch porn solo, how often? 55% As an infrequent treat 24% Watch every week 13% Have a monthly date 5% Hardcore daily users 3% None of our business Got any toys hidden in the bedside drawer? 57% Say their bedroom is strictly au naturel 40% Have a buzzing collection of gadgets 3% Keep the drawer locked Have you ever sent a cheeky, flashing nude to someone? 66% Swear they have never sent an intimate pic 31% Have proudly hit send on a dirty selfie 3% Hiding behind the lens Bedroom Gymnastics What’s your go-to position when it comes to sex (Multiple choice options) 54% Classic missionary 48% Wild doggy style 32% Cowgirl position with her on top 18% Flip it around for a reverse cowgirl 9% Have other gymnastic favourites 6% None of the above float their boat 13% Too shy to tick a box Are you a creature of habit or a wild experimentalist? 43% Occasionally try new positions 39% Just stick to what they know well 12% Wild thrill-seekers who regularly mix up positions 6% Prefer not to say how they play it Spicy parties & three-ways Have you ever ticked any of these cheeky events off your bucket list? (Multiple choice option) 74% Total angels who have never been to any of them 12% Hit up a proper singles or dating party 10% Mingled at an organised singles mixer 8% High-pressure environment of speed dating 8% Put themselves out there at a matchmaking event 6% Stripped off at a proper sex party 4% Let it all hang out at a sex festival 3% Checked into an exclusive sex retreat 2% Keeping their scandalous event history secret Have you ever welcomed a threesome? 79% Stick to the two’s company rule 18% Thrrouple experience or casual group session 3% Tight-lipped on headcounts Have you ever tried an open relationship with a bit on the side? 90% Strictly one partner only 8% Have had open relationships 2% Prefer not to tell us if they share If you are “open” does the ‘free pass’ rule only apply on holiday? 63% Yes, at home we’re a closed couple 36% Open-love policy is 24/7 1% Wouldn’t spill the holiday gossip