Women are already struggling — now a third of men want us back in the kitchen

It’s a little bleak at the minute (Picture: Getty Images) The past few weeks have been a bleak snapshot of modern life for women, with harrowing stories dominating headlines. Russell Brand is currently on trial for several charges of rape and sexual assault against six women. And, the University of Bath is investigating claims members of a rugby club planned to spike female students during freshers’ week. In the US, the Cornell 7 gang-rape case continues to unfold, and an alleged child-rapist is running unopposed for police chief in a town in Louisiana. And now, a new study by The Young Women’s Trust reveals 36% of young men have admitted they believe society would be ‘better off if men and women returned to “more traditional roles”’. It confirms the picture painted by a global study of 23,000 people back in March, which found Gen Z men hold more anti-women views than Baby Boomers, with 33% of younger men believing a husband should have the final word on important decisions. Men don’t want to believe they’re privileged says Kathryn (Picture: Getty Images) The Young Women’s Trust surveyed 5,000 18 to 30-year-olds and found that, at the same time, 70% of young women are worried women’s rights are going backwards, compared with 43% of young men who share the same concern. In reality, less than a fifth of young women want to return to more traditional gender roles, where they’re expected to raise children and be homemakers, while men revert to the breadwinners and making the key financial decisions. Why do men feel this way? Kathryn Higgins, a Goldsmiths professor of global digital politics, with a keen interest in feminism and gender, believes the universal hardship we currently face is a big contributor as to why men are reverting to outdated views. ‘Young people of all genders are really suffering in this country under an economic system that continues to widen the gap between the richest few and the rest, and fails to create real opportunities for young people to live the kinds of lives they always hoped they’d live,’ professor Higgins previously told Metro. Ask Metro Use AI to go deeper into the stories you care about – powered by Metro and trusted publications. Kathryn believes this creates an incredibly tough backdrop for having serious conversations about power and privilege with young men, many of whom ‘can’t find stable and fairly compensated employment, can’t afford housing, and are facing the prospect of a life much less comfortable than their parents.’ However, the professor adds that while they don’t feel advantaged, ‘that doesn’t mean they’re not.’ These feelings are compounded by young women expecting more from the men in their lives. According to professor Higgins, young women are no longer coerced socially and financially into partnerships with men who aren’t interested in being their equal. ‘They can instead choose to be single, become solo parents if they so desire, or to enter partnerships with other women,’ she explained. ‘It’s unsurprising that young men feel like they have less control in their intimate relationships with women than in previous generations — because they do.’ There’s a vitriol towards women The research from Young Women’s Trust also reveals a worrying nine in 10 young women have been subjected to sexism in the past year – with one in three (31%) saying this has been detrimental to their mental health. An even larger number (75%) say their lives have been negatively impacted by sexism and misogyny, with 43% saying it’s made them feel unsafe in public and 41% saying it’s knocked their confidence. And, young women believe these attitudes are becoming more commonplace. About 74% agree that sexist comments are becoming more acceptable amongst young men. It was only in April that a union survey warned of a ‘masculinity crisis’ in UK schools, with nearly a quarter of female teachers being targeted by misogynistic abuse from a pupil in the past year. The culture of sexism is getting worse (Picture: Getty Images) One teacher claimed she was called a ‘f**king slag’ by a pupil, while another said boys were making rape jokes. In February, teacher Vicki Williams was stabbed in the head with a kitchen knife by her 16-year-old male student, which has been sentenced to four-and-a-half years in youth detention. The result? More than a third of young women have felt forced to change the way they dress as a result, while 21% avoid sharing their true opinions at work. In fact, more than half of HR managers are aware of young women in their organisations who have experienced sexist or discriminatory behaviour in the last 12 months, and 21% said that managers were responsible for the sexual harassment. And despite ministers launching a National Taskforce for Tackling Misogyny to better protect women and girls, just one in five of the women surveyed were confident politicians were taking misogyny seriously. The taskforce will bring together experts from across the country, along with ministers and local leaders, to discuss the lived experiences of women and girls, ensuring government policy is shaped by those most affected by misogyny. Despite this polarisation between sexes, 82% of young women and 81% of young men want more to be done to unify them. Katharine Sacks-Jones, Young Women’s Trust chief executive, says: ‘With growing threats to the rights and protections that women have fought hard to secure, young women now feel their rights are up for grabs. ‘Now is the time to challenge harmful attitudes, stand up for young women’s rights and ensure every young woman has the power and opportunity to fulfil her potential.’ Do you have a story you’d like to share? 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