RICHARD EDEN: Infidelity, Lucian Freud and a £5m family home sale

According to one of his lovers, having an affair with artist Lucian Freud felt like becoming ‘completely hooked’ on ‘a dreadful drug’.The consequent addiction – to which a ‘long list of sensitive young women’ succumbed – only ended, recorded one of them, when they became ‘too dependent and needy’, at which point Freud, who ‘always encouraged the infatuation’, dumped them.But did the damage inflicted by Freud extend to the families of those of his lovers who were less young and not remotely needy? The question is prompted by the fate of Stoke Park Pavilions in Northamptonshire, the enchanting remnants of what was once the first, and possibly the finest, Palladian house in England.Linked by a curving colonnade and set in 113 acres, Stoke Park has for the past 70 years been the home of the Chancellor family. First, publisher Robin Chancellor, who bought it in 1953 and rescued it from dereliction, and then his nephew Alexander, who, at various times, edited the Spectator and Oldie magazines. But now, some nine years after Alexander’s death, it’s been ‘reluctantly’ put on the market for £5.25 million.Such a fate seemed improbable, even unthinkable, only four years ago when Alexander’s widow, Susanna, told me: ‘All Alexander’s life was tied into Stoke Park.’ The house, she added, was owned and administered by a trust. But the couple’s long and happy marriage was also unconventional. Susanna, granddaughter of Sir Ernest Debenham who sold the family department stores in 1927, had a longstanding affair with Freud.Alexander, for his part, fathered a daughter by another of the artist’s lovers, Emily Bearn, who was 26 when she posed naked for Freud, who was then in his 70s. 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