My girlfriend’s porn past is destroying us – I don’t want to lose her but the images constantly run through my mind

DEAR DEIDRE: I CONSTANTLY torture myself with the images of my girlfriend’s porn past. It’s made me so jealous that it’s starting to destroy our three-year relationship. My girlfriend and I are both in our mid-thirties and I love her very much. She’s kind, patient and loyal, and even stood by me during my mental...