I’m sleeping with sex workers after being shut out by cold wife… but I feel dirty and guilty

A man in his late forties, feeling neglected and shut out by his wife, has turned to sex workers for a sense of control. Despite knowing it's wrong and feeling guilty, he admits it's the only time he feels in charge. His wife and their two autistic children have left him feeling isolated and desperate, highlighting the emotional toll of marital strain and the complex dynamics of seeking solace outside a troubled relationship. This situation underscores the deeper issues that can arise from marital disconnect and the often desperate measures people take to cope with emotional neglect.