I’m risking everything for an affair with the ex I never stopped loving — but he won’t leave his wife

DEAR DEIDRE: MORE than ten years after we split, I’ve found myself embroiled in an affair with my married ex, and no matter how wrong it feels, I can’t seem to stay away. I’m 35 and he’s 37. We were together in our twenties. He was the one that got away. We were young and...