I’m desperate to win my first wife back – how do I convince her we’re meant to be together?

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M desperate to reconcile with my first wife but she won’t give me a chance. How can I convince her that we’re meant to be together? We split up 13 years ago after five years of marriage and two kids. We’re both now 45. Nobody cheated — our marriage just broke down. We...