I tried to be a '90s butter mom.' I'm now a more present parent, but it also reminded me that social media is idealized.

The author reflects on trying to embody the "90s butter mom" parenting style, which led to a more engaged and present approach to parenting. While the nostalgic trend brought positive changes in her parenting, she realized that social media often presents an overly idealized version of such parenting ideals. This insight highlights the importance of recognizing the curated nature of online content and striving for authenticity in real-life parenting. It serves as a reminder to balance the influence of social media with genuine, thoughtful parenting practices.