I said no when friend asked my husband and me for a threesome… then a month later, we couldn’t stop thinking about it

AS our Ultimate Summer Sex Survey reveals, just 16 per cent have had a threesome or group sex. Hairdresser Tanya Murom, 36, from Leeds, West Yorkshire, is among those who will be attending sex festivals this summer with her husband Ash, 33… WHEN our friend asked us to have a threesome, we immediately said no, fearing it would spell the end of our friendship. Tanya Murom, 36, will be attending sex festivals this summer with her husband Ash Credit: Glen Minikin Tanya and Ash also regularly attend swinging clubs and holidays across Europe to have sex with other couples Credit: Glen Minikin But the invitation planted a seed of curiosity that would go on to completely transform our sex life. After we declined our friend’s offer in 2019, it got us talking, and Ash and I both admitted we fancied trying the sex club scene as a couple. We visited our first club that summer, where we watched other people have sex. Since then we haven’t looked back and have become more adventurous. We have had sex while other people watched in what is known as the ‘viewing area’ at a festival or a viewing room in a sex club. The first time we tried it, we were both nervous, but afterwards we felt amazing. Open communication is key, and we always check in with each other during events, says Tanya Credit: Kennedy News 74 per cent of people in our Summer Sex Survey have never had a threesome or attended a sex party Credit: Getty We now regularly attend swinging festivals, clubs and holidays across Europe where we have sex with other couples. And we’re not alone, as 18 per cent of people revealed they have had a wild throuple experience or a full-blown group session in the Summer Sex Survey. Summer is when all the swinging festivals here and in Europe occur. The weather is great; you can work on your tan and enjoy meeting new people. We also run events which introduce newbies to swinging clubs, and we have a YouTube channel helping curious couples learn more about the lifestyle. Many people assume that swingers’ clubs and festivals are shrouded in mystery and stigma. While that perception still exists – 74 per cent of people in the Summer Sex Survey have never had a threesome or attended a sex party – the reality is often very different from what they imagine. We have met people from all walks of life, including Gen Z couples, retirees, doctors, lawyers and shop owners. We’re a young couple and people like our no-nonsense approach. Open communication is key, and we always check in with each other during events. And the best part is that when we get home, we have what we call reclaim sex, which is always hot. We have fun together, but always come back together. The trust we have now is stronger than ever. SEXY SUMMER SECRETS BRITS are ready to turn up the heat this summer as a sizzling new wave of bedroom adventure sweeps across the nation. The explosive findings are part of our ultimate Summer Sex Survey, which reveals exactly what gets the country going when the mercury rises. Sunshine is proving to be the ultimate aphrodisiac, with over a third of randy punters confessing that a heatwave gets them feeling way more romantic than usual. From cheeky outdoor romps to tearing up the relationship rulebook, the British public is ditching the old traditions to hunt down hot summer flings and experimental new positions. Here, we delve deep into the sizzling results of our most revealing poll yet. The Sun’s poll of 2,000 adults reveals the nation’s wildest summer bedroom secrets The Bedroom Clock How often are you actually getting it on? 30% Several times a week 23% About once a week 21% A few times a month 10% Less than once a month 7% Exactly once a month 5% Every. Single. Day. 4% Not telling What’s your prime time for bedroom action? 32% Late at night 24% Cheeky evening romp 19% Whenever, go with the flow 13% Love a bit of morning glory 6% Save it up for wild weekends 5% Appreciate afternoon delight 1% Only when on holiday Hitting the spot How regularly do you actually hit the big O? 34% Often 33% Every time 21% Only sometimes 6% It’s a rare treat 4% Not telling 2% Never get there How easy do you find it to talk dirty and tell your partner what you like? 42% Fairly comfortable 39% Very comfortable 13% Not very comfortable 4% Not at all comfortable 2% Too shy to say The heatwave effect When we asked if the heatwave made you fancy an outdoor romp, most people said it made no difference to their sex life, the remainder were split 55% Less likely, it’s too hot to get sweaty 35% Could be tempted or are well up for it 10% Can’t say/won’t say Does a bit of sun get you feeling extra affectionate? 63% Yes, feel more amorous 22% Sticky heat is a real turnoff 9% God yes, strip and go 6% Just aren’t sure What is it about the summer that gets your motor running? (Multiple-choice option) 70% The sunny weather puts them in a much better mood 69% Blame it entirely on the warmer weather 47% Because we are away on holiday or travelling, so more relaxed 35% Love having more free time on their hands 25% Down to more socialising and summer boozing 2% Have other secret summer triggers 1% Say none of this applies to them Holiday wild child When you jet off on holiday, does your inner wild child come out? 32% Bedroom behaviour stays the same 31% Let their hair down 29% Become spontaneous holiday romantics 5% Are way more cautious when abroad 3% Just stay at home Which of these juicy summer perks do you look forward to most? (Multiple choice option) 44% More quality time with partner 35% Exciting new experiences 28% Being way more physically affectionate 21% The thrill of meeting new people Screen time Ever watched adult films? 66% Confess to having watched a bit of blue content 29% Claim they have never even peeked 5% Wouldn’t share their browser history If you do watch porn solo, how often? 55% As an infrequent treat 24% Watch every week 13% Have a monthly date 5% Hardcore daily users 3% None of our business Got any toys hidden in the bedside drawer? 57% Say their bedroom is strictly au naturel 40% Have a buzzing collection of gadgets 3% Keep the drawer locked Have you ever sent a cheeky, flashing nude to someone? 66% Swear they have never sent an intimate pic 31% Have proudly hit send on a dirty selfie 3% Hiding behind the lens Bedroom Gymnastics What’s your go-to position when it comes to sex (Multiple choice options) 54% Classic missionary 48% Wild doggy style 32% Cowgirl position with her on top 18% Flip it around for a reverse cowgirl 9% Have other gymnastic favourites 6% None of the above float their boat 13% Too shy to tick a box Are you a creature of habit or a wild experimentalist? 43% Occasionally try new positions 39% Just stick to what they know well 12% Wild thrill-seekers who regularly mix up positions 6% Prefer not to say how they play it Spicy parties & three-ways Have you ever ticked any of these cheeky events off your bucket list? (Multiple choice option) 74% Total angels who have never been to any of them 12% Hit up a proper singles or dating party 10% Mingled at an organised singles mixer 8% High-pressure environment of speed dating 8% Put themselves out there at a matchmaking event 6% Stripped off at a proper sex party 4% Let it all hang out at a sex festival 3% Checked into an exclusive sex retreat 2% Keeping their scandalous event history secret Have you ever welcomed a threesome? 79% Stick to the two’s company rule 18% Thrrouple experience or casual group session 3% Tight-lipped on headcounts Have you ever tried an open relationship with a bit on the side? 90% Strictly one partner only 8% Have had open relationships 2% Prefer not to tell us if they share If you are “open” does the ‘free pass’ rule only apply on holiday? 63% Yes, at home we’re a closed couple 36% Open-love policy is 24/7 1% Wouldn’t spill the holiday gossip