I haven’t had sex with my wife in over six years – has the menopause turned her gay?

DEAR DEIDRE: IF I try to get intimate with my wife, she jokes and says: “Not with you.” But it’s not funny. We haven’t had sex for more than six years. I’m starting to wonder if the menopause has turned her gay as she has become close friends with a woman. I’m 59, she’s 57....