I had simple but red-hot sex life with my wife – now she’s terrifying me with wild bedroom antics picked up online

DEAR DEIDRE: MY sexy wife is upset because I don’t want to try bondage. How can I tell her it does nothing for me. In fact I feel like a real idiot.  I don’t want to dampen her enthusiasm because I love everything else that we do. However, handcuffs and whips are outside my comfort...