Cassia and French Cafe restaurateur Chand Sahrawat on turning sexual abuse trauma into self-help book

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Photo / Michael CraigChand Sahrawat, restaurateur and life coach, has written a guidebook to surviving sexual abuse. Photo / Michael Craig Earlier this year, Auckland restaurateur and life coach Chand Sahrawat spoke to the New Zealand Herald about life after sexual abuse and the book she was writing to help other survivors reclaim their voice. Today, as she launches After Me Too: A Guide to Thriving After Sexual Abuse at a